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Trouble in Paradise


Danger is looming in the marriage institution. The demon has decided to attack wives just like it appeared to Eve on that fateful day and put us all to hell. Now all what these women can think of is plotting to kill their husbands so that they can inherit all the properties. Call it greed but is there more to it? What would make your wife of many years go psycho all of a sudden?

She even goes to the extent of celebrating when she receives the news that her hubby is dead. Where they get this notions from only thriller movies know best. So am looking at it from different angles. To kick it off, i think this wife of yours married you for the money, envisioned how paradise would be and since God seems to be delaying in calling you to rest, she takes it upon herself to end it. Then she can inherit it all, MAYBE share the rest with SOME poor greedy relatives who arranged and rushed the marriage in the first place and here you are claiming she LOVES you. Sorry Mister she never did and has never loved you.

Beware of who you end up marrying. Be a CID and do those undercover unearthing to her and her family because somewhere in between lies murder genes that mutated and took over a greater percentage in her. This rush towards marriage either to societal pressures or wanting to be in the same level as your age mates needs to stop. Remember it’s a two people affair and you are not marrying the entire village. So, date for as long as it takes you, let them come out of the closet and get to know their worst behavior that can be tolerated even when you say I DO.

Lack of communication has also contributed to this aftermath. Either each of you is so busy to let their anger out or ego does not permit into seeing one’s mistakes. She has been trying to pass a message across but you never heed to it. She has swallowed it all and been on the verge of vomiting it out, death is her only solution to end this torture and misery you made her carry. So dear couples, sit, talk, throw those tantrums and pillows at each other but at the end of it all have a solution.

Lack of satisfaction has made men go out of their marriages in search of greener pastures. However, grass ain’t greener on the other side since the other party wants to extort every cent of your bank account as you continue to receive those pleasures. Then there is this thing of wanting to be a teenager when your body muscles cannot even allow it. You want to go down the memory lane to those days you chased after girls, clubbed weekend long not  taking a moment to contribute to your family’s welfare. When your wife feels threatened and see her future and those of your children doomed due to your promiscuity, why then can’t she kill you? You are no longer a teen so you better MAN UP or the gun, knife will do the talking.

Demands, demands and demands. For sure women can be a nag and if you ain’t measuring up to her expectations woe unto you. You got the money, you ain’t treating her right, she resembles more of a hag than a wife and you don’t give a damn about it, trust you me if she doesn’t walk out,she has something in store for you. Kindly, be giving them the attention they need and make them feel loved.

Women for the love of the marriage you dreamed of, be patient, pray, learn to listen, be understanding, work harder and bring money to the table not always relying on his money and  keep calm. Rome wasn’t build in a day neither is it a bed of roses. Thorns will always be there to prick it, your waters will be tested a lot and how acidic, basic or neutral you emerge out of it, is how both of you handle your issues.

If you cannot communicate then a visit to a marriage counselor  is just a knock away. Fire in paradise can be cooled off by therapy which involves the two of you taking that broad step to keep the boat afloat.

Next time you cannot take it, divorce is there or better still walk out. It will be so sad when you will be sentenced to a lifetime and not see your kids grow. Before you hire those goons in the name of professional murderers, sit down to plot, THINK TWICE.

 

 

 

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